"The entire speech was about her. At MY wedding. 90 percent of the guests congratulated her afterwards and talked about how 'strong' she was."
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Wedding faux pas, we're all aware of them, we've all seen them once or twice in the wild and there's a good chance we've all made one at one time or another.
But just how bad a faux pas do you have to commit to find yourself ejected from the reception? Well, in the case of this bridesmaid, all she had to do was give a speech.
'Her speech was really selfish'
"I got married last Saturday. Hooray for me! My sister was my maid of honour," one grumpy bride shared to Reddit.
"During her speech, she brought up her depression and how my husband supported her through it and how 'in that moment, I knew he was the one for (bride's name)'.”
Sounds like a nice story right? Nope, the bride was actually less than impressed by her sister's trip down memory lane.
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"I thought her speech was really selfish. I think it’s super inappropriate to bring up a mental illness during a wedding speech," she wrote.
In fact, she was so unimpressed that she actually kicked her sister out of the reception.
"The entire speech was about her. At MY wedding. 90 percent of the guests congratulated her afterwards and talked about how 'strong' she was," the bride said. "Nobody was paying attention to me, at my own wedding! Sorry if I sound selfish, but in my opinion, there is a time and a place for this sort of thing.
"So after the guests all greeted her, I asked her to leave and told her she was being disruptive and selfish. She was really upset but just left without arguing. My parents agree with me. but my husband and all of my close friends think I was way too harsh."
The bride then asked the people of Reddit what they thought about her decision and it turns out, they were less than impressed.
"Sounds like the stereotypical self-centered bride"
"'Nobody was paying attention to me!' Never has one sentence defined my resentment for weddings and wedding culture so perfectly," wrote one person.
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"How DARE the Maid of Honour at a wedding compliment the GROOM. Doesn't she know she's supposed to only say good things about the bride?" wrote another sarcastically.
"The lack of compassion for mental illness is also quite apparent in both the OP (original poster) and her parents."
What do you think? Is this bridezilla material or did her sister cross the line?