As told to Beth Young for 'How I Survived' | February 20, 2019
When Leisa couldn’t be there for her granddaughter, Max the dog stepped in.
Leisa Bennett, 44, Victoria Point, Qld
The scream escaped my throat, filling my car, as I hurtled along the highway.
On hands-free, the shocking news my sister, Ellen, had just delivered hung in the air.
Leisa details her emotional journey in How I Survived , a podcast which shares amazing first-hand survival stories from people who have faced the unimaginable and escaped with their lives.
The gorgeous little Aurora. Image: How I Survived
Spending the day on her grandpa’s farm, my three-year-old granddaughter had vanished into thin air.
My ex-husband Gordon’s mountain-fringed property, just outside of Warwick, Queensland, was stunning.
But for an inquisitive toddler like Aurora, dangers lurked around every corner.
Snakes, scorpions, wild pigs, I thought, frantically. Not to mention, the 12 dams and various uncovered wells.
She’d been missing since 3pm. Four hours on, the sun had well and truly set.
The search for Aurora. Image: How I Survived
Be the role model your children deserve. Kids learn by watching their parents. Modeling appropriate, respectful, good behavior works much better than telling them what to do.
What if a predator had taken our sweet girl?
Forcing the horrific image out of my mind, I wiped my eyes and went into super-gran mode.
Racing home to my fiancé, Kelly, and my son, Joey, 13, we all piled into the car for the 150km journey inland.
With Kelly behind the wheel, I called my daughter, Letitia, 24 – Aurora’s mum.
My girl was beside herself.
Having left the farm to take her Grandma Margaret to Brisbane, she was on her way back, too.
"Mum, don’t come – you’ll be just as emotional as me," she said. "The professionals are searching."
Max the dog became an unlikely hero. Image: How I Survived
Like hell, I thought.
Turning our car into a command centre, I furiously pulled together a search party. I even organised for a dear family friend, Uncle Ronald, who is an Aboriginal tracker, to meet us.
Pulling up at 10pm, I saw the SES and police were there. But I didn’t want to leave a single stone unturned.
Terrifyingly, they hadn’t found a trace of Aurora.
Letitia was shell-shocked and catching sight of her dad, my heart went out to him.
It could’ve happened to anyone, I thought.
Talk about what it means to be a good person. Start early: When you read bedtime stories, for example, ask your toddler whether characters are being mean or nice and explore why.
After badgering her grandpa to go yabbying, Aurora insisted that Max – his 17-year-old partially blind and deaf blue heeler – had to come along for the adventure.
When they were ready to go, the phone rang and Gordon went to answer it quickly. When he returned, Aurora and Max were nowhere to be seen...
"He was only gone for a minute," Letitia sobbed.
Aurora has always adored the blind and deaf dog. Image: How I Survived
Without a second thought, I walked into the scrub and down into a gully.
"Rora!" I called.
Pitch black, I couldn’t see the ground in front of me.
I’m going to break my neck, I fretted.
Heading back, I found Uncle Ronald and we headed into the hills together.
Letitia stayed at the house, in case Aurora returned.
Scouring the terrain for any clues, such as footprints or broken trees, and sweeping through eerie abandoned stables, we found nothing.
Hours passed, and when we got back at 2am, the rescuers were packing up.
"We’re blind out there – the choppers can’t see anything. We’ll start again first thing," a police officer said, gently.
"If you have never been hated by your child you have never been a parent. " - Bette Davis
"Go and get some sleep," he added.
But that night, I couldn’t even cover myself in a blanket, let alone close my eyes.
"How could I possibly sleep knowing she's out there?" Image: How I Survived
Aurora’s out there cold, how can I be warm? I thought.
As soon as daylight broke, I was back out in the bush
Yelling for hours until I was hoarse, I tried to put myself in Aurora’s shoes.
Where would I have gone? I mused.
Then it came to me!
Fed up with waiting for her grandpa, our headstrong girl would have gone yabbying on her own.
Heading down to the gully again, which led to the creek, I reached a clearing.
Just ahead, there was a steep mountain.
Would she climb that? I wondered.
Suddenly, a faint whisper from the bush
"Rora!" I screamed.
A faint whimper echoed back.
'Could it really be her?' Image: How I Survived?
Was that a bird? I thought.
"Rora!" I called again, walking towards the sound.
"Yeah?" a faint voice travelled back.
My legs went to jelly as I sprinted towards the sound.
"Aurora, where are you darling?" I called out.
A furry face popped his head out from behind a big tree – Max!
Turn taking. Help all members of the family take turns talking and listening. Children find it much easier to talk when there are fewer interruptions.
Then, I saw my little angel.
Covered in burrs, her hair was a nest of leaves and sticks.
No wonder – she’d trekked a whopping 2km and scaled a 500m incline on her tiny legs!
And by now it was 8am – she’d roughed it outside for 17 hours.
Wrapping Aurora in a blankie, I cradled her and sank to my knees.
The absolute relief. Image: How I Survived
"Why are you crying, Gramby?" she asked.
"They’re happy tears, darling – I found you," I explained.
"Max lay on top of me and kept me warm – he was my blanket," she told me.
Letitia was emotional beyond belief.
"Of course it would be you who found her, after I told you you’d be useless," she laughed through tears.
Later, Aurora told us she’d got lost after deciding to walk to Brisbane to find her mummy.
"I saw the lights from a very big monster," she said.
The poor little thing was talking about the search and rescue helicopter! But she bounced back quickly.
"I’m going to go on another holiday in the bush, but next time I’m going to have a tent," I overheard her saying the next day.
Remember that discipline is not punishment. Enforcing limits is really about teaching kids how to behave in the world and helping them to become competent, caring, and in control.
Oh no you won’t! I thought.
The dog that saved the day. Image: How I Survived
Nearly a year on, Letitia doesn’t let Aurora out of her sight.
And sadly, just before Christmas we lost our beloved Max.
But the protective pup’s legacy lives on – before Max passed away he was made an honorary police dog.
He kept our girl safe – he was one paw-some pooch.
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